What is a Parenting Plan?
A written agreement between parents about arrangements for children after separation. It's not legally binding but can be converted to consent orders if needed.
Essential Components
Living Arrangements
- Where children live primarily
Time Schedule
Regular time:
School holidays:
Special occasions:
Communication
Between parents:
Between children and absent parent:
Major Decisions
How you'll make decisions about:
Travel
- Interstate travel
Practical Considerations
Handovers
- Where (home, school, neutral location)
Flexibility
- How to handle changes
Introducing New Partners
- When and how
Grandparents and Extended Family
- Ongoing contact
Writing Tips
Be Specific
Instead of "regular contact" say "every second weekend from Friday 3pm to Sunday 5pm."
Focus on Children
Frame everything around children's needs, not parents' convenience.
Plan for Conflict
Include a dispute resolution process (discuss → mediation → review).
Be Realistic
Create arrangements that can actually work given work schedules, locations, and children's needs.
Allow for Change
Children's needs change as they grow. Build in review mechanisms.
Template Structure
1. Parents' details
Converting to Consent Orders
If you want your parenting plan to be legally enforceable, you can apply to the court for consent orders based on its terms.