The Two Options
Parenting Plan
A written agreement between parents about arrangements for children. Not legally enforceable.
Consent Orders
Court orders that both parents agreed to. Legally enforceable.
Key Differences
| Feature | Parenting Plan | Consent Orders |
| --------- | --------------- | ---------------- |
| Legally binding | No | Yes |
| Enforceable in court | No | Yes |
| Easy to change | Yes | Need agreement or court |
| Cost | Free | Filing fee + possibly legal costs |
| Formality | Flexible | Strict format |
When to Use a Parenting Plan
Good For:
- Amicable co-parents
Advantages:
- Free
Risks:
- Not enforceable
When to Use Consent Orders
Good For:
- Needing certainty
Advantages:
- Legally enforceable
Risks:
- Costly to change
Can You Have Both?
Yes. Many families start with a parenting plan and later convert to consent orders if needed, or have consent orders for basics and a parenting plan for details.
What to Include
Both should cover:
Making the Decision
Choose Parenting Plan If:
- You trust your co-parent
Choose Consent Orders If:
- You need enforceability