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What If My Spouse Refuses to Divorce?

Your spouse's consent is not required for divorce in Australia. Here's what to do when your spouse won't cooperate.

Splitifi Team4 December 20247 min read

No-Fault Divorce

Australia has a no-fault divorce system. This means:

  • You don't need your spouse's consent
  • You don't need to prove wrongdoing
  • The only requirement is 12 months separation

    Filing a Sole Application

    If your spouse won't cooperate, file a sole application:

  • 1. You file alone 2. You serve papers on your spouse 3. They have 28 days to respond 4. Divorce proceeds regardless of their response

    What If They Won't Sign Form 1A?

    The Acknowledgment of Service (Form 1A) proves they received the papers. But they don't have to sign it.

    Alternative Proof

    Use these instead:

  • Affidavit from the person who served them
  • Tracking receipt from registered post
  • Screenshot of read receipt (if electronic service approved)

    What If They Refuse to Accept Service?

    If they actively avoid being served:

  • Use a professional process server
  • Apply for substituted service
  • Document their refusal

    What If They Contest the Divorce?

    Your spouse can file a Response to Divorce, but they can only dispute:

  • Jurisdiction (whether Australian courts can hear it)
  • The marriage being valid
  • The separation date

    They cannot stop a divorce just because they don't want one.

    What If They Make Threats?

    If your spouse:

  • Threatens you
  • Says they'll "make your life difficult"
  • Tries to delay proceedings

    Remember:

  • Document everything
  • Consider an intervention order if needed
  • Their behaviour won't stop the divorce
  • They may face cost orders for unreasonable conduct

    Timeline When Spouse Doesn't Cooperate

    Even with a difficult spouse:

  • 12 months separation: Required
  • Filing to hearing: 3-4 months
  • Substituted service application (if needed): 2-4 weeks
  • Total: Still around 16-18 months
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