What is FDR?
Family Dispute Resolution (FDR) is structured mediation for family law disputes. It's required before going to court for parenting matters.
Before the Session
Intake Assessment
You'll have a separate intake session:
Preparation
- Write down your ideal outcome
The Session
Setting
Usually at a Family Relationship Centre or private FDR service. Sessions are:
Who's Present
- Both parties (may be in separate rooms if needed)
What Happens
1. Introduction: Practitioner explains ground rules
Duration
Typically 2-3 hours. May need multiple sessions for complex matters.
Ground Rules
- Speak respectfully
Possible Outcomes
Agreement Reached
The practitioner can help document it as a parenting plan.
Partial Agreement
Progress made, but some issues unresolved. May schedule another session.
No Agreement
You'll receive a Section 60I certificate allowing you to apply to court.
Tips for Success
- Be open-minded: Rigid positions rarely succeed
What Not to Do
- Don't use FDR to attack your ex