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Family Violence and Parenting Orders

How family violence affects parenting arrangements. Safety considerations, protective orders, and what courts prioritise.

Splitifi Team6 December 202410 min read

Safety as Priority

When family violence is involved, protecting children from harm is the court's first priority. This takes precedence over the benefit of a relationship with both parents.

What is Family Violence?

Under the Family Law Act, family violence includes:

  • Physical assault
  • Sexual assault
  • Emotional abuse
  • Economic abuse
  • Threatening behaviour
  • Stalking or harassment
  • Coercive or controlling behaviour

    Exposing Children to Violence

    A child is exposed to family violence if they:

  • See or hear it
  • Witness its effects
  • Are present during incidents

    This itself is considered harmful to children.

    Impact on Parenting Orders

    What Courts Consider

    - Nature and seriousness of violence

  • How recent and ongoing
  • Risk of future violence
  • Impact on children
  • Protective measures available
  • Both parents' conduct

    Possible Outcomes

    Depending on the situation:

  • Supervised time with the violent parent
  • Time in a contact centre
  • Limited or no time
  • Protective conditions (handovers in public)
  • Orders preventing contact

    Protective Measures

    Intervention Orders

    Separate from parenting orders. Apply to police/magistrates court. Can include:

  • No contact orders
  • Exclusion from the home
  • Distance requirements

    Parenting Order Conditions

    - Supervised visits

  • Neutral handovers
  • Communication only through apps
  • Drug/alcohol testing
  • Counselling requirements

    Making Allegations

    Your Obligations

    You must tell the court about:

  • Any family violence
  • Any child abuse or risk
  • Any intervention orders

    False Allegations

    Making false allegations is serious. Can affect your credibility and outcomes.

    Evidence

    Courts look for:

  • Police reports
  • Medical records
  • Intervention orders
  • Witnesses
  • Photos/recordings
  • Contemporaneous records

    Getting Help

    If You're Experiencing Violence

    - Call 1800RESPECT (1800 737 732)

  • Contact police if immediate danger
  • Seek safe accommodation
  • Get legal advice urgently

    For Children's Safety

    If children are at risk:

  • Contact police
  • Consider child protection services
  • Get urgent court orders if needed

    FDR Exemption

    If there's family violence, you may be exempt from attending FDR before going to court. You can get a Section 60I certificate on grounds of family violence.

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