Mediation Data

Divorce Mediation Success Rates

Mediation has an 85% success rate for reaching agreements, costs 60% less than litigation, and resolves 3x faster. Couples who mediate report 78% satisfaction compared to just 45% for those who litigate.
Settlement Rate
85%reach agreement
High success rate
Cost Savings
60%less than litigation
Avg $7,500 vs $18,500
Time Savings
3xfaster resolution
4 months vs 12+ months
Satisfaction Rate
78%highly satisfied
vs 45% litigation

Mediation vs Litigation Comparison

Across every measurable metric, mediation outperforms litigation for couples who can work together constructively.
MetricMediationLitigationSavings/Improvement
Average Cost$7,500$18,50060%
Average Duration3-4 months12-18 months70%
Settlement Rate85%95% (forced)N/A
Satisfaction Rate78%45%+73%
Compliance Rate90%65%+38%
Post-Divorce Conflict22%58%-62%
Children Affected Negatively18%42%-57%

Mediation Success by Issue Type

Some issues resolve more easily in mediation than others. Financial matters generally succeed more often than emotionally charged issues.
Issue TypeSuccess RateDifficultyNotes
Property Division
88%
MediumFinancial focus helps
Parenting Plans
82%
Medium-HighChild-centered approach
Spousal Support
79%
HighEmotional component
Child Support
92%
LowFormula-based in most states
Business Valuation
75%
HighComplex financial issues
High-Conflict Cases
62%
Very HighOften need hybrid approach
Domestic Violence History
35%
Very HighOften inappropriate

Mediator Types & Success Rates

Different mediator backgrounds offer different strengths. Dual-mediator teams (attorney + therapist) have the highest success rates.
Mediator TypeSuccess RateHourly RateSpecialty
Attorney Mediator86%$350-$500Legal complexity
Mental Health Professional84%$200-$350Communication, emotions
Financial Expert82%$250-$400Asset division
Dual Mediators (Attorney + Therapist)91%$400-$600Comprehensive
Retired Judge88%$400-$700Reality testing

Mediation by State

Many states mandate mediation for custody disputes. Success rates and costs vary by state.
StateMandatory MediationSuccess RateAvg Cost
CaliforniaYes (custody)87%$8,500
FloridaYes (all)85%$6,800
TexasOptional82%$5,500
New YorkYes (custody)84%$9,200
IllinoisYes (custody)83%$6,500
OhioOptional80%$5,200
New JerseyYes (custody)86%$8,800
MassachusettsOptional88%$9,500

Why Mediation Works

Research identifies key factors that make mediation successful.
92%
Control over outcome
Parties decide, not judge
85%
Confidentiality
No public court records
78%
Preserves relationships
Important for co-parenting
88%
Flexible scheduling
Evenings, weekends available
82%
Creative solutions
Options beyond court rules
76%
Lower stress
Non-adversarial environment

Prepare for Successful Mediation

Splitifi helps you prepare for mediation with organized finances, clear proposals, and documented priorities. Couples who come prepared have higher mediation success rates.
  • Financial organization tools
  • Proposal templates
  • Parenting plan builders
  • Settlement tracking

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the success rate of divorce mediation?

Divorce mediation has an 85% success rate for reaching agreement. This means 85% of couples who attempt mediation are able to resolve all issues without going to court. Success rates vary by issue type and mediator.

How much does mediation save compared to litigation?

Mediation costs approximately 60% less than litigation. The average mediated divorce costs $7,500 compared to $18,500 for a litigated divorce. Complex cases can see even larger savings.

How long does mediation take?

Mediation typically resolves in 3-4 months, compared to 12-18 months for litigation. Most mediations require 3-5 sessions of 2-4 hours each. Simple cases may complete in as few as 2 sessions.

Is mediation appropriate for all divorces?

No. Mediation is not recommended in cases involving domestic violence (35% success rate), severe power imbalances, or where one party is hiding assets. High-conflict cases may need a hybrid approach combining mediation with occasional court involvement.

Cite This Page

Splitifi. "Divorce Mediation Success Rates: Statistics & Comparison." Splitifi.com, February 2026, https://www.mysplitifi.com/statistics/mediation-success-rates
Data sources: Association for Conflict Resolution, American Bar Association Section of Dispute Resolution, State Court Administrative Offices.
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