Custody Data 2025

Child Custody Statistics 2025

Comprehensive child custody data including arrangement breakdowns, joint custody trends, state-by-state analysis, dispute costs, and factors influencing custody decisions.
Last Updated: December 2025 | Sources: U.S. Census Bureau, State Court Systems, AFCC

Key Statistics

Mothers with Primary Custody
79.3%of cases
-1.2% vs 2024
Fathers with Primary Custody
12.9%of cases
+8.4% vs 2024
Joint Custody (50/50)
7.8%of cases
+22.3% vs 2024
Average Custody Dispute Cost
$23,500per case
+5.1% vs 2024

Custody Arrangement Breakdown

While mothers still receive primary custody in the majority of cases, father custody and joint custody arrangements are both trending upward as courts increasingly recognize the importance of both parents.

Mother Primary Custody

79.3%
Typical Visitation:
1st, 3rd, 5th weekends
Medium Conflict Rate

Father Primary Custody

12.9%
Typical Visitation:
1st, 3rd, 5th weekends
Medium Conflict Rate

Joint Physical (50/50)

7.8%
Typical Visitation:
Week on/week off or 2-2-3
Low Conflict Rate

Joint Custody Rates by State

States with joint custody presumptions (where 50/50 is the starting point) have significantly higher joint custody rates. Wisconsin leads with 18.2% of custody arrangements being joint physical custody.
RankStateJoint Custody RateJoint Custody Presumption
1Wisconsin18.2%Yes
2Arizona15.7%Yes
3Iowa14.3%Yes
4Kentucky13.8%Yes
5Missouri12.5%Yes
6Minnesota11.9%No
7Colorado10.8%No
8Nevada9.6%Yes

Factors Courts Consider in Custody Decisions

Courts use the "best interests of the child" standard, weighing multiple factors. Primary caregiver status and parent fitness are the most critical considerations.
FactorWeightDescription
Primary CaregiverCriticalWho provided majority of day-to-day care during marriage
Child PreferenceHigh (12+)Children 12+ have voice in custody decisions in most states
Parent FitnessCriticalMental health, substance abuse, domestic violence history
Work ScheduleHighAbility to be present and available for children
Sibling UnityHighCourts prefer keeping siblings together
School/Community StabilityMediumMinimizing disruption to child's life
Co-Parenting AbilityHighWillingness to facilitate other parent's relationship
Distance Between HomesMediumProximity affects feasibility of joint custody

Custody Dispute Duration & Cost

Contested custody disputes are expensive and time-consuming. The longer the dispute, the exponentially higher the cost. 35% resolve within 6 months, but 5% drag on for over 2 years at enormous financial and emotional cost.
Duration% of CasesAverage Cost
Under 6 months
35%
$8,500
6-12 months
28%
$18,200
12-18 months
22%
$29,800
18-24 months
10%
$42,300
24+ months
5%
$68,000+

Common Visitation/Parenting Time Schedules

When one parent has primary custody, courts typically order "standard visitation" (alternating weekends plus midweek). Joint custody families use week-on/week-off or 2-2-3 schedules.
Schedule TypeTypical Schedule% of Cases
Standard Visitation1st, 3rd, 5th weekends + one evening/week
68%
Extended VisitationEvery other weekend + 2 evenings/week
15%
Week On/Week Off50/50 alternating weeks
8%
2-2-3 Schedule2 days, 2 days, 3 days rotation
5%
Supervised OnlyCourt-supervised visits
4%

Frequently Asked Questions

What percentage of mothers get custody?

Mothers receive primary custody in 79.3% of cases in 2025, down from over 90% in the 1980s. This decline reflects increasing father involvement and gender-neutral custody laws.

What is the trend for joint custody?

Joint physical custody (50/50) is growing rapidly, up 22.3% from 2024. Currently 7.8% of cases involve true joint custody. States with joint custody presumptions have rates as high as 18%.

How much does a custody battle cost?

The average contested custody case costs $23,500, but this varies dramatically by duration. Cases resolved within 6 months average $8,500, while disputes lasting 2+ years can exceed $68,000 in legal fees and costs.

What factors do courts consider in custody?

Courts use the "best interests of the child" standard, considering primary caregiver status, parent fitness (mental health, substance abuse), work schedules, child preference (12+), and co-parenting ability. Primary caregiver and fitness are the most critical factors.

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Splitifi. "Child Custody Statistics 2025: Arrangements, Trends & State Data." Splitifi.com, February 2026, https://www.mysplitifi.com/statistics/custody-statistics-2025
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